QUESTIONS

Being the new kid at school can be a scary experience! What’s the new school going to be like? Will the kids like you? Will you fit in? Will you like the teachers? Will they like you? OMG! There’s too much to think about! I can’t blame you if you want to roll over and sleep. Yeah. But avoiding it won’t help you deal with the inevitable first day. Here are some tips that might help you ease into your new school.

How to Handle Being the New Kid at School

A...............

Clothes are a big part of image and self-confidence. Instead of trying to wear what you think will impress people, focus on wearing clothes you like. They’ll give people an idea of your personality, but more importantly you’ll feel comfortable in your own skin

B. ……………

Never change who you are to try to fit in. If your friends don't accept you for you, they're not really friends. Most people belong with a certain clique simply because they are being themselves and their unique personalities and interests falls into that stereotype.

C. ……………

Sure, it might seem like the lunch table seating charts are set and cliques aren't accepting new applications, but not only is that not true, there are also plenty of other people just like you looking to make new buds. Try not to be intimidated, and don't let perceived social rules stand in your way. Fortune favors the brave when it comes to making new friends.

D. ………………..

Don’t be afraid to let people know who you are. Everyone is likely curious about the new student, so don’t feel self-conscious about introducing yourself to your teachers, the students sitting next to you, and anyone you make eye contact or chat with. Something as simple as “Hey, I’m Jessica!” will break the ice.

E. …………………

Smile and be nice to each new person you encounter. You’ll make a positive impression and let people know that you are friendly. Avoid making assumptions or judgements about the students at your new school. It’ll take some time to get to know everyone and distinguish rumors from facts, so treat everyone with kindness and respect.

F.………………………

Look for groups of people who wear the clothes you like, listen to the music you like, and do the things you like. Ask to sit with them during lunch or during activities. Don’t worry—if you like those things too, they’ll probably want to hang out! For example, if you see a group wearing basketball jerseys talking about last night’s game, you can say, “Basketball’s my life! I got to see the Knicks twice when I lived in New York. You mind if I sit with you guys?”

G. ………………………

Adapted from: an article Co-authored by Klare Heston, LCSW

Didn't meet anyone who you think is going to turn out to be your lifelong bud during the first day? Don't stress. Those people are hard to come by, no matter how long you've been a part of any particular community. But it's not like you've wasted any time: Putting yourself out there and making those first-day connections are crucial steps. If for no other reason than to have some tablemates at lunch.

QUESTIONS

Task 1: Match these headings to the paragraphs:

1) Introduce Yourself. ……….

2) Get involved! ……………

3) Don't Force It. ……………

4) Pick an Outfit That Makes You Feel Great. ……

5) Be bold! ………

6) Be Kind to Everyone. ……….

7) Be Genuine. ……….

Task: 2: Explain these expressions:

a.“Perceived social rules”: ………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………

b.“Fortune favors the brave”

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c.“break the ice”

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d.“lifelong bud”

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e.“hard to come by”

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f.“Putting yourself out there”

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Task 3: Answer the following questions:

1. What would happen if you don’t be yourself in your new school?

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2. How can you start a conversation with your new classmates?

3. Why is it important to avoid making assumptions or judgements about the students at your new school?

4. Why look for a group of people that shares your interests?

5. In your opinion what would make a great first impression in a new school?

Task 4: Comment on this:

“Never change who you are to try to fit in. If your friends don't accept you for you, they're not really friends.”

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